Here I am to portray The Complete Man I have ever met in my Life. Well, A person can be good or bad and never be both. But, ever since I learnt about him, I have always had that deep sense of respect for him. I always wanted to share a handshake, a casual conversation and if possible, even meet him in person. But, would it all happen? That was not the question that I was bothered about because I knew that it was going to happen pretty soon. It was the question of how and when this would happen because I was running out of patience as ever and I had not option to gain access to him.
So, this man is "The Complete Man". Why? Is it because he is my role-model? No. Is it because he is her father? No. Is it because he is successful in Life as to how the society describes his stature? No. Is it because of........ There can be so many questions for me to keep giving this annoying 'no' as the answer. So, let me come to the point as to why he is "The Complete Man".
Say, this garment brand has this tagline "The complete Man" and I have been watching them use this tagline since I could remember. I always used to wonder if there could ever be a complete man and if so, what would possibly be the criteria or eligibility to be one. I never found luck to find a complete man and neither did I ever find those criteria until Dec, 2, 2017 when my phone kept ringing and I came rushing to answer it..... err... from the shower.
To be complete, you need to have all the traits in you. To be complete, you need to tick all the boxes in the checklist. To be complete, you have to be him. I mean, to be a complete man, a man who ticked all the boxes and the one who defies all of nature's laws. Say, if a person is good, he is of course not the epitome of bad. And, the same applies if the person is bad, he can never be the epitome of good. This is natural. One can either be good or bad. The one who defies this is the one who is complete because in anything and everything, even in the exceptions that we list out, things can only be 'good' or 'bad' ultimately in one way or the other.
This man, "the Man", The Complete Man", as I say, is complete because he is the one who has the proven ability to take the stance of both good and bad which clearly beats every other person hands down to make him win his "The Complete Man" title. Before meeting him, during the days of knowing him I used to hear a lot about him through her. She used to portray him good and bad. That kept me wondering how a person can take both sides at the same time. Later on, as she kept talking more about the negative side of him, I still had a sense of belief that there was something behind such acts and the truth will turn out when I meet him someday.
I always knew the moment he knows about us, he would go mad at us but, it would be him to look for because I always knew he would accept us. And, my biggest success is, as I predicted, he did go mad at us but, at the same time used the same words that if we had let him know of this, he himself would have let us stay together. That is where I did not falter. I always knew he would accept us. He does even now. But, the villain lies in her. For, at the last moment, she faltered. Succumbing to fears that never materialised, she stood down instead of speaking up when it mattered.
When he uttered those words that defined my success, I could clearly see how the past hour or more's telephonic conversation had shown that this Man was "The complete Man" who stands by his words. He was both good and bad, true to each dimension's necessary quality of good and bad. Although dimensions were multiple, it was that one instance in which he showed his completeness. Spontaneously taking such a stance and to be both good and bad in each dimension was also observed which defies nature. And, hence he is "the complete man".
And, when the instance of meeting him came upon, I saw him stand there so down to earth and simple. Just like awaiting to receive me in his completeness (Good and bad, I mean *winks for what is within brackets ONLY*). In all the words we spoke, in all the moments we shared, in all the thoughts, gestures, phrases, scenarios, and everything alike, he proved me right. He gave me the chance to prove her "fears" wrong. For all that she kept whining around about him, I could see it was true and at the same time, if persisted, it was false as well. The amazing trait of being both good and bad at the same time, in the same dimension, is what keeps him "The Complete Man". The Man who is good but evil, the Man who is evil but good. So, is he neutral? Oh, come on. Give yourself a kick and meet him. You would never dare to call him neutral. And, when you return in agreement to what I said, I will give you a kick as well. *Grins*
The Complete Man, A part of my family, the most prized person in our Life, the most celebrated yet, unknown soul to her, the Man to look toward in any circumstance, The Man I always believed he was, is so true to what I predicted. And, Come on. why would I choose to run away? I am staying, because he uttered those magical words so beautifully in spite of all the rage and chaos. We did spend a couple of hours through telephonic conversation and in person. And, when we had the moment of handshake, I felt it all true. Yes, It was once upon a time, a dream, which had materialised into reality and I am so proud to have lived that moment and I can do so every time I think of it.
He did come to see me, he did come down in his tone upon meeting me, he did show me how to be "The Complete Man". He did apologise to me for the action of his accomplice who seems to be the filth that got stuck to this Complete Man's footwear in his journey to meet me. He did wish me. He did talk good about me. He did share few words in my mother tongue. He did show it in his eyes of all the care and concern. He did stand there and spend his valuable time with me when he does not even get enough time to rest. Most of all, he did utter those words that if she had said yes, he would definitely allowed us to live together. He thereby defined my success for all Life to live. Hats off to "The Complete Man". - rPhoenix
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