LOVE...

Love. The most special feeling of all. The love bug, has bit almost everyone in this world. How true is he/she in love? How sincere is he/she in love? How special is his/her love? How much does it actually matter to him/her to be with his love forever and ever in his life? Love- the joy that fades all material desires and the one and only feeling that takes a person to achieve the peaks of human life's purpose. To love without expectations, to live without preconceived notions is probably the most blessed life. There can be no life without love. In every single action we commit, there is love. Even if you hate a person so much, you love hating them. You live in a sphere surrounded by love everywhere. Even if you believe love is fake, blind, meaningless, or whatever, you still are in love with your beliefs. That is why you are so assured that you don't believe in love.

Love is not just the state of sharing pleasantries with each other, living cosy with your special one in a luxury apartment, leading a blissful hassle-free high-money life. Love has no boundaries. It sees no barriers. Love is the feeling that is holding everything in place more than gravity. It is this love that has seen many disasters averted.
In a common man's life, it is this love that is keeping him grounded to earth. A person can have unique characteristics from another. But, One and only common feeling shared in every single living being on this planet is love. A prey, a predator, a master, a slave- all these are names given by us. They were not just to differentiate or sort them category-wise, but it also means that they earned those names due to their love towards their beliefs, attributes, skills and so on. A prey has always believed that it is inferior to its predator and it has succeeded being a prey because of the love it has towards its belief. Similarly, A predator's love towards its belief to take down a prey keeps it above the prey in the food-chain.

Love is the only feeling that can give or take life. It is a universal medicine. Anyone can challenge denying the existence of love but once again, it only means that you are so much in love with the belief to challenge me. If you fail to win the argument, you are in love with something else. If you win, you are in love with challenging things.

From an individual's perspective, to love a person is not a crime. To love a person through his/her life is not a sin. To love a person is just like allowing the person to enjoy his/her basic right. Why are you loved? Who is at fault for falling in love with you? There cannot be any blame games here. If i love something or someone, it is because that something or someone was lovable. As simple as that. For those who sulk r sigh at this statement, true love will one day prove you wrong. A dedicated, determined, focused and a well-read person is not sure to lose his/her love. The ability to hold your nerve in the most demanding situations will see you through in love.

For all those who talk about love "failure", they need some clarification as well. Love is not a game to have wins or losses. If someone left you or in the modern terms "dumped" you, it doesn't mean that you "lost" in love. Love cannot be won or lost. It is the Hearts that can be won or broken. You are simply "lost" in your thoughts, in this mad race of civilization, in this materialistic world of pleasures and fake positions. Set everything aside and take a moment for yourself and you can figure out where exactly you are, who exactly is your true love and then decide what exactly you need in life.

There will be no prince charming or any princess whatever whatever to come in front of you and give you true love's first kiss. Wake up people, this is no fairy land. This is a life. A limited life. A life that should be lived enjoying everything to the maximum extent possible. People who take love but don't respond or share it are the most selfish souls. They can't be blamed. They need to be showered with more love and care. Do this, and the one who said they "don't love you" or "hate you" will be yours for life. Rather, most of them curse or go away from the one who said so.

To all those who are in love, you are most blessed in this limited life of ours. And, for all those who are on the other side of the coin, time and experience will soon make you believe in love and remain in a state of love that no one has attained.

Never let looks alone determine your acceptance of love. Looks fade off as time passes by. Trust the heart to choose your special one. The heart never ages. It is the only thing that keeps you and your love young and going even for ages. -rPhoenix