Shushhhhh! And, observe. You have a lot to learn. Pick all of them or in random. Just look at what people are looking to make out of you?! Are they here for benefits? Are they here for gains? Are they here out of genuine concern? Are they showing signs of fading? Are they showing signs of staying? Are they giving you hints of their actual purpose? Just read all of them around you without making a noise. Stop everything where they are and do a random audit. Slowly make this activity your routine, you will learn a lot about those who are around you.
Are they here to take? Are they here to make? Are they here to fake? Are they even here without fail? Or, have they been coming and going only when they feel something for them? Did they or do they put you above their priorities when situation demands? Of course, everyone wants to be in the good books of you. But, they will knowingly or unknowingly leave a hint about their true colours. But, why? Why do all these with everyone around us? Oh, all that glitters is not gold. Nowadays, there are means to show oneself to be a glittering material. But, is that shining thing really Gold?
Why should you do this? Because, no one will come and do it for you. There is one group looking for Gold and there is one group faking to be Gold. But, everything is starting to become shiny and attractive that we often mistake them to be Gold. In all, there is no group that can be labelled as actual Gold because that is something we have to find out.
If you know the knack to stop people from crossing their lines, then you need not do it on them. But, in the fast pace of Life, we cannot draw lines to each and every person we come across. Either you draw one common line and make everyone stand behind it. That is what I do. Or, although you might have let yourself into troubled ways but through this random audit, you can find and eliminate probable threats to your core. No one prefers to get hurt time and often. Do they?
You can do this in many ways. Just work like a genuine antivirus program on your Computer. Show no mercy. Scan each and every person in your network. There will be some who would do only good to you. Now, they are your first targets. Ask yourself, why do they do only good? Because, to err is human. And, if someone is carefully escaping from showing their erroneous side to you, they are upto something behind you. Next, look for those who are seen only when they have something to do with you. Those are parasites. Let your firewall burn them off. Then, look for possible material that exists in your books for mutual benefits. Scan them carefully and see if they have been present during occasions of your distress. Decide based on that. You know what to do.
When do we realise the true colours of a person? Often, it is too late to protect ourselves from damage. These true colours are not an issue if you know how to draw that one common line for all. But, when you are not aware of that, you let anyone and everyone access your vaults and then they loot all the valuables in you and leave you stranded. In the end, it is your core that has to fend for itself and bounce back. What if this can be avoided? And, I need not tell you the importance of auditing. *Winks*
We all seek answers. But, are we comfortable with asking questions? We must be comfortable with questions. Question everything. Do not accept anything so easy. Even if it is coming beneficial to you, find out why it is happening so easy. Spend time questioning as much as possible and you will see how wise you become. The easiest way to fall prey is to avoid these questions and fall for the benefits. And, since you did not question during times of benefit, you lose your right to question when you fall victim as well. That is how the fakers make their way after looting you. It is like you have given them a grand expressway to drive through.
In mentioning about questioning, I might have resorted to listing negative tone questions or in ways to find faults in others. You may ask, are there no good questions to ask? A good question is that which identifies the bad in others because, the purpose of this audit is to find out weeds in your garden than to identify the blooms. Anyday, the good will stay. It is these weeds that are of concern. Once the weeds are removed, you will have only blooms. All that you do or give or take will be with and to your blooms. There will be no backdoor available for anyone to steal from you. Just like an Antivirus program, as I said. Scan, be aware and remove if needed. Stay safe and be available only to those who deserve your presence. Just because you are Gold does not mean they will be the same. It is in that mistaken belief that you have been used upon. Now, that you are aware, you will know the importance of this audit as and when you find and eliminate possible threats and find yourself less vulnerable. -rPhoenix
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