I have seen many opportunists come and go. I have seen many fates turn upside down. I have witnessed many people rise up from nothing. And, I have seen many people being abandoned like nothing. So, when I say this, you may get two possible opinions about me. One, I seem to talk like I know everything. Two, I talk what I have seen or come across. If your opinion is the former, welcome to those who oppose me all the time or think I hate to be "proved wrong" i.e., those who think or perceive that I am here to prove what others say as wrong and make my point stand. If your opinion is the latter, then I have not met you till date or let me welcome myself because I have not come across anyone who has had an opinion on the latter side and it me who see myself that way which is what I am.
So, if you think I am here to prove myself right all the time, let me tell you, I talk only about things I know of. So, the probability of me going wrong is less. I say probability, which means I give the chance of me going wrong as well. Thank to high school mathematics that taught me probability. *Winks* And, I have not said that I am always right. So, please remove that notion thinking that I am here to "always prove something". Well, deep in psychology subjects lies a truth. So, do not think I am blaming you in anyway because, in the studies, it says the normal human tendency is to be seen and/or heard.
It means, every individual wants to fight to be supreme. When they proposed the "Survival of the fittest" theory, this is what it meant. If the fight is for physical space, we can very well see it. Like, how we show off strength with numbers and stand against some individual and threaten their existence or to wipe off their family and stuff. If the fight is for mental space, then that is where this "proving" comes to play.
We think the opponent is trying to establish themselves as supreme against us and we tend to perceive that they are trying to "prove" themselves right and ourselves wrong. That is when we start to argue. An argument is still a form of discussion. An argument without a personal touch or emotional attachment is what leads to conflict that parts people forever. That is, we do not see them after the first and final argument.
Any discussion that we end up with bitterness does not tend towards being termed an argument. It is just our perception. Such people have a personal or emotional attachment and they may seem to be coming together after every such discussion but the world or even they themselves consider it to be mere arguments. That is where Love transcends beyond and wins over the bitterness. That is why you are reading this now, Bubbles \(^_^)/
What he was threatening me was for physical space. What we were battling was for mental space. And, what has kept us together in spite of all these is our Love. Love, here does not refer to just the term to connect hearts, it refers to the love for humanity, love for passion, love for words, love for each other's presence and our very own essence that brought us together.
So, there is no "proving", no "blaming", no finding faults, nothing of that sort. It is our inner tendency to fight for survival. Over a period of time, after facing bitterness, we still feel something tingling inside of us and that is Love. If it had not been tingling, you would not be reading this ever. If it did, then witness how beautifully bitterness was overcome by Love to establish itself as the supreme being. Love is the supreme of all emotions. It is the survival of the fittest among all emotions. Just like people, emotions inside of us also fight for supremacy and Love always triumphs.
As for ourselves, this fight for supremacy between us is only in words. In real Life, we have always found our ways to sort this and neither you nor me have emerged the supreme being. Rather, Love has triumphed and it will let us live together forever in harmony happily ever after. *Aw, a perfect fairy tale Life* -rPhoenix
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